Manfrotto 3021 Tripod Legs Too Heavy For Pretenders Which Tripod To Get The Bogen Manfrotto 3011 (B)N Or 3021 (B)N?

Which tripod to get the Bogen Manfrotto 3011 (B)N or 3021 (B)N? - manfrotto 3021 tripod legs too heavy for pretenders

I want to be able to use separate legs at different angles, but the 3011 (b) n not .. Is it really important? Should I spend the extra $ 50 (3021), so you can spread your legs at different angles, in addition to a height of at least 3''?
I like the fact that 3011 and 3021 supported £ 13.2. I have a Nikon D70 kit with lens and flash SB600 and I may have a different lens soon be buying, but some ideas would be very grateful to factor in the stand ...